The Poisonous Secret – Part 3 – Healing Choices

There is so much I could say about the healing process. The book mentioned in the last post has been a big help to me. Talking to friends about my struggle to forgive, and seeing a professional to help me work through what my past abuse has done to me-how it’s effected who I am [...]

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The Poisonous Secret – Part 2 – Emotions

Back in December, I took a retreat from the world.  My in-laws were out of town and graciously allowed me to use their home as a hide-out.  I had a creative project I wanted to work on, but the real reason for the trip was to face some ugly things from my past and begin [...]

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The Poisonous Secret

Sometimes it’s really hard to write here.  I’ve wanted to quit several times. I asked my husband what he thought and he advised me to post when I feel like posting something, but to take the pressure off myself. I talked to trusted friends and explained how my own journey has been difficult the past [...]

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Interview with Drenda Thomas, Part 2

Welcome Back for Part 2. We’ve been talking with Drenda Thomas about her ministry, Piercing the Darkness. Drenda, when we left off last week, you had just told us that your husband goes with you when you do outreach. Let’s start there. Even with your husband nearby and a team of people at your side, [...]

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Send me your questions…

A friend of a friend of a friend…seriously, has agreed to do an interview here on the Sex, Love, and Marriage blog. For the last 8 years, Drenda has had a ministry in Houston where she goes into strip clubs and gives gift bags to the dancers. Back in January she took a team to [...]

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